My body is my own

It took me a long time to accept that I am not supposed to please anyone, all I had to do was please my body and myself: I had to let it feel happy.

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The selfish girl’s guide to being kind

If we’re being totally honest with ourselves, we’d realise that being kind just because “it’s the right thing to do” isn’t really being kind at all.

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I don’t need to please anyone but me

What I am is not because of you, I am because of me.

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What happened while I was gaining weight

I recently bumped into an old acquaintance at the mall who looked me up and down, waggled her eyebrows, gestured at my evident weight gain and asked, “What happened?”

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[Poetry] Mirror, Mirror

Once upon a time, Whether portly or svelte, I often felt the uncanny need to unearth my net worth
from the digs of others…

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Your way is the only way

We become committed to this concept that the only way to live our life is our way; and that our way is perfect even if other people can’t see it.

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